Written by Dr. Eric Perry
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“You can only understand people if you feel them in yourself.” ~John Steinbeck
The ability to see and feel the world from another person’s point of view is one of the most powerful human traits. Empathy allows you to transport yourself into another person and to experience the world through their eyes. Without empathy, we are empty vessels; nothing more than singular and isolated figures unable to connect with the world around us.
To better understand empathy, it is important to distinguish it from sympathy. Sympathy is the ability to understand another person’s situation from your point of view. It is a self-centered point of view that helps you understand what the other person is going through based on your own circumstances. You are able to acknowledge how the other person is feeling but, from a distance. You do not become emotionally connected to the person. For example, you are able to sympathize with someone having problems in their relationship because you have had problems in your own relationship. You do not feel what they are feeling but you have an understanding of what they are experiencing.
Empathy is a bit more complicated and abstract. In order to experience empathy, you must have the ability to identify the emotion and to place yourself in the other person’s position. The focus of empathy is self-less. You are experiencing another person’s emotional life by your ability to connect with them. In a sense, you are vicariously feeling the emotion. For example, through empathy, you are able to feel a stranger’s loss of a child, even if you are childless, by seeing the loss through their perspective. Through this connection, you are able to wear the emotional skin of another and essentially feel with them.
The inability to imagine yourself in someone else’s place in order to understand what they are feeling will result in difficulty in connecting with others. The lack of empathy is one of the traits shared by psychopaths and those with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Also, recent research suggests that people with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) may have difficulty with empathy. In a 2018 study from the University of Georgia, researchers used functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI) to show that individuals with BPD have less brain activity in areas of the brain that are important for empathy.
This reduced activity may indicate that individuals with BPD have a more difficult time understanding and predicting the emotional experiences of others. However, further research is needed as there is an earlier conflicting study by Alan Krohn from 1974 that suggests individuals with BPD have a special form of empathy that gives them an enhanced sensitivity to the mental states of others.
The inability to imagine yourself in someone else’s place in order to understand what they are feeling will result in difficulty in connecting with others. In individuals with BPD, it may lead to difficulty in interpersonal relationships and an inability to maintain a stable and emotionally healthy relationship. The lack of empathy in people with NPD and psychopaths leads them to objectify others. Their inability to connect with others allows them to view them as objects to be used for their benefit.
Psychopaths are able to understand emotions but are not able to feel what others are feeling. They are able to mimic emotions to get what they want but overall they are only able to feel shallow emotions. They are not able to feel empathy, guilt, remorse, fear or love. To the psychopath, people exist only for their benefit. They will take what they want with charm, force or by attaching themselves to their victim like a parasite. The psychopath will destroy a person’s life without a second thought.
NPD exists on a continuum from mild to malignant. According to the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5), narcissists lack empathy. Individuals with NPD are able to feel emotions but due to early trauma and physiological deficits, they are not able to properly express them. Much like an empath, individuals with NPD have high emotional intelligence that allows them to identify how other people feel and think. Unlike an empath, a person with NPD uses this ability plus his lack of empathy to manipulate and exploit others. They primarily use people as a source of narcissistic supply to help them bolster their weak ego.
Empathy is a powerful source of human connection. Empathy adds to your emotional palate by allowing you to experience depths of emotions in your life that you would not otherwise experience. It allows you to feel how another person is feeling and also gives you the ability to experience another person’s perspective of the world. Without empathy, the world would be a dark place, prone to hatred of others who we perceive as different. It is important to remember that we are all essentially the same but simply have a different vantage point of the world. Our views may be different but we share common joys and fears. We all rejoice in the birth of a child and mourn the loss of a loved one in the same way.
Thank you for reading. I would love to hear your thoughts about this topic.
The thoughts expressed in this blog post are my own and are not meant to create a professional relationship with the reader. This blog does not replace or substitute the help of a medical professional. Please note, I am unable to answer your specific questions as I am not fully aware of all of the circumstances.
Kindly,
Dr. Perry
“I help ambitious and high achieving individuals manifest a life of success and fulfillment in order to achieve the life they truly desire.”
Dr. Eric Perry | drericperry.com
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I love this passage! “Empathy adds to your emotional palate by allowing you to experience depths of emotions in your life that you would not otherwise experience” so true! I love this post. Thank you Dr. Perry.
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You’re welcome Maria. I’m happy you liked it✨
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You are incorrect. Currently, there is no cure for psychopaths and narcissists. Further, research shows that there is a neurological component to these disorders so in fact, they may be born with the inclination towards these disorders.
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I’m always happy to get the email notification that you posted something new. This is a very well written and excellent post. I also believe that empathy is vital for humanity. I believe younger generations have a deficit of it. Thank you.
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Thank you very much for reading and sharing your thoughts✨
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I agree Dr. Perry, without empathy this world would be a dark place ! What a beautiful article, thank you !
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Thank you very much for reading and commenting✨
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Thank you for sharing such a wonderful post Dr. Perry. As a nurse you have to have empathy in doing your job. Being a nurse you either touch a life or a life touches yours. Have a good weekend.
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Hi Pam, beautifully said. Thank you so much for reading and sharing your thoughts✨
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I agree with your great post Dr. Perry😊☺️
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Hello Kerellos, thank you very much for reading✨
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I’ve always been extremely interested in the human condition, our connection to one another and the inner workings of both. As an intuitive, emotional and physical empath, I understand what you wrote about here in an acute way. I only a few years ago was finally able to put a name to all of the extra sensory perceptions that I experience 24/7 by the assistance and guidance of my long term therapist. Understanding my gifts opened a whole new world for me because before that I thought I was plain crazy!! I had nobody to talk to about or gain advice from on the constant nagging “knowing” of other’s thoughts, feelings and physical ailments. I thought I was cursed. Turns out it’s just the opposite which is how I view our human behavior in general. The yin and yang of everything, the vantage point we choose to observe and judge the world around us. It’s absolutely fascinating to me. I read books on these subjects to expand my knowledge with the goal of helping to heal those who cross my path. Strangers seek me out to tell me their deepest darkest secrets. They always say, I don’t know why I’m telling you this. To which I reply with a smile and a simple, it’s ok….you can tell me. Empathy is something that is severely lacking in our society today. I recently wrote a few blog posts myself on the subject. I applaud you for always remaining introspective with your readers and inviting us to challenge our own thinking. I really enjoy your blog Dr. Perry, thank you ❤
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Thank you so much for reading and sharing your fascinating insight✨
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Thank you for another insightful post Dr. Perry. I had never thought about how empathy and sympathy differ. This was a very clear and easy to understand write up on the topic. I am going to set the intention to be more mindful of how empathic and I am towards others in hopes to be able to connect better. Thank you again Doc.
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I am happy to hear this resonated with you and that you are setting such a positive intention. Thank you for your comment!
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This is a brilliant post. I used to believe that everyone was capable of empathy on some level and I am learning that that’s not always the case. Some simply are not capable of it. Empathy is one of things that connects us, that makes us relate to one another and I can’t help imagine was a disconnected and lonely place those without empathy must be in.
When we see behaviour we don’t understand we try and put ourselves in that place but when certain behaviour is so cruel and painful, we will never comprehend it. Without empathy the world would be such a dark place to live. Really interesting post Dr Perry. 🙂
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I’m happy you liked it. Thank you very much for reading and commenting✨
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Excellent post. I feel a bit sorry for individuals that cannot feel empathy. But, I would not want to meet these individuals. What a colorless world they must live in. Thank you for sharing these wonderfully written and insightful posts!
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You’re welcome! Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts✨
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Great content! I would love to read about methods how empaths can help themselves to get back to there own thoughts and feelings. If you dive too deep as an empaths in other people problems you barely can separate all those feelings and get easily depressed. Perhaps you have ideas about that issue? Would love to read more about that… as a very emphatic Person it’s so important to get back to your own life with your own feelings but if you feel deeply how your surrounding feels it not as easy as it might seem
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Thank you for your comment. I will give your question some thought and possibly write about it in the future.
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Would love to read about it, thank you
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Thank you for sharing your insights on this topic. Your clear explanation of the difference between empathy and sympathy was like a small puzzle piece that opened another window to deeper understanding of people around me. Empathy is a beautiful thing though at times it can be extremely painful.
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I am happy to hear this post was helpful to you in some way. Thank you for commenting✨
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Another wonderful post Dr. Perry. Loved reading it. Sympathy and empathy are often confused by many to be synonymns. You explained the borderline difference very accurately.
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Thank you so much. I’m happy you liked it and appreciate your comment✨
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This was an excellent read. I always learn from you Dr. Perry. I very much appreciate the effort you put into sharing your professional thoughts. Please never stop writing!
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It is my pleasure to share. Thank you for reading and commenting✨
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You did it again. You wrote about EXACTLY what I was just thinking about the other day. Wow. Thank you. A family member of mine is always giving me this “I feel so sorry for you” energy which is absurd because I am doing what I love and doing really well at it. It’s just not what she thought I would be doing with my life. She’s always telling me how much she cares but I think it’s been really about her this whole time. Definitely some food for thought for me to digest. You’re the best Dr. Perry!
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It sounds like synchronicity is at work in your life. I am happy this resonated for you and that it came to you at an appropriate time. Thank you so much for your comment✨
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The focus of empathy is self-less. ❤️beautiful lines Dr… As always a great post .. Thank you 🙏🏻
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Thank you Rani✨
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I thoroughly enjoyed reading this post Dr. Perry. My favorite thing to hear is my email dinging letting me know you shared something again. Keep it up. Your blog keeps me sane! Love it!!🙏
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Thank you for commenting✨
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A wonderfully informative read. Thank you for sharing! Yet again I learned a lot that is helpful. I suppose we must keep negotiating other people’s ability to empathize with our own capacity for the same.
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Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts✨
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Yes I agree. I understand people better when I put myself in their shoes 😊
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Indeed. Thank you for reading and commenting✨
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You are very inspiring! Keep the good content going. Cheers!
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Thank you very much✨
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This is a great post! So, I write short stories, mostly. And what I have noticed so far is that when I can form empathy with the character better, when I can get into their shoes better, then they come out better. Likewise, when I can be my friend as I am listening to them, then I can help them better. Empathy in imagination, empathy in real life.
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Thank you for reading and sharing your insight✨
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Excellent explanation on the differences between a Psychopath and an NPD personality. I found this all very interesting and also useful. I am hopeful that this information will help me interact more successfully with others and discontinue my tendency to trust people too quickly, which has resulted in different levels of disappointment and even “heartbreak”.
Sending a sincere thank you for your postings.
JA
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Thank you so much for reading and sharing your thoughts.I’m happing that you found this post helpful✨
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So interesting to me and made me think of my Father, my mom always said he was a narcissist. I think maybe because of her hurt feelings who knows but later on he was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s. Which explained a lot of his behaviors. It took several years before my Father was diagnosed and by then the Alzheimers was so advanced that I had to place him in a care facility. Do you think people can be misdiagnosed as a narcissist but actually have something else going on?
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A diagnosis of NPD should only be made by a licensed and qualified clinician to avoid any misdiagnoses. In today’s society the term “narcissist” is used too loosely to mean a person with a mental disorder✨
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I appreciate this blog. It was very informative. I forwarded it to a friend who discussed this very issue of psychopathic behavior with me yesterday. Very timely! Thank you, Dr. Perry.
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You’re welcome Jan✨
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Beautiful written. I appreciate the time and effort you put into your blog. Thank you🙏🏽
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You are most welcome. Thank you for reading✨
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Great post, very clear and concise. Thank you for sharing about this topic Dr. Perry
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You’re welcome Marnie. Thank you for reading✨
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Very good post!
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Thank you✨
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Excellent and relevant post. Empathy for others is so important. Not only emotionally but we also need the ability to look at the world through eyes that are not our own. This allows us to accept and embrace other cultures that are not our own.
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Very true. Thank you for your insightful comment✨
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Connecting with another on this level is so important. It allows us to grow. Feeling anothers heartbreak or loss seems to help that person. It is a selfless act that seems to happen naturally. This subject is so interesting to me. Its sad that someone could go through life without this feeling. Excellent article.
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Indeed. It’s very sad. Thank you so much for reading and sharing your thoughts✨
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Love this post and the Steinbeck quote. Thank you for writing this! ❤️
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This was very interesting and timely. I suspect that someone I know has BPD, so this shed more light on the illness. Also, I just finished reading Alan Alda’s book, If I Understood You, Would I Have This Look on My Face? It’s about communication and how true communication cannot take place without empathy.
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I have BPD, and know quite a few others with this personality disorder. All of us have the problem of too MUCH empathy. We feel other’s emotions, and even take them on as our own which can be confusing. I have yet to meet someone with BPD who struggles with empathy.
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Your posts are always 💯
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Thank you✨
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I think about empathy all the time since becoming a parent because I felt it was lacking in my upbringing. It helps me connect to my children and has created a special understanding between us. It has helped me outside my family to become less judgmental of others, as I realize that people are trying their best to be happy and no one has it easy! Thank you for this insight.
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You are most welcome. Thank you for reading and commenting✨
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great post, as always. I am learning to be more empathetic 🙂
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Thank you very much✨
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I am experiencing “your emotional life” by understanding your closing salutation-Kindly. This signature expresses volumes of connective insight. Thank you for inspiring goodness.
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My family fell victim to a narcissist or even psychopath. It took more than 10 years to realise how she worked. She told lies, embellished the truth until it was unrecognisable, used forms of manipulation like anonymous letters and had a huge sense of entitlement and self -aggrandisement. She craved praise and compliments.
Ultimately her letter-writing was the undoing of her. As fewer people write letters these days – opting to use internet instead – and the fact that she didn’t use a computer at all, the suspicion entered my mind that it was she that was the author of the anonymous and quite awful letters. It was her use of an incorrect postcode for my brother, followed by the same incorrect postcode used a couple of days later on a Christmas card to him, that finally confirmed that she was indeed the author.
She wanted to spend more time with my father who she felt was spending too much time with my brother, who was a recovering alcoholic. The letter’s sole purpose was to send him into a spiral of depression and maybe drink. All so she could get what she wanted.
And still she managed to somehow justify why she did it and has never, not even to this day, apologised or admitted her selfish reasons for doing so. Until this point I had never thought such people existed. Devoid of empathy. And yet we had let her into our lives for at least a decade.
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Thank you for reading and sharing your insight✨
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Outstanding and important, because without empathy we can’t develop as a race of people. I feel this is fundamental, and therefore my responsibility as a preschool teacher to help young children learn, feel, and understand kindness and goodness to each other. This is huge!
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Thank you so much for reading and sharing your insight Jennie. I agree! Teachers, much like parents, provide children with the first lessons on the importantance of empathy✨
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Yes, we teachers do. In this busy world, unfortunately parents don’t always have the time to focus on these things. They may seem small at the moment, but they are big down the road. That’s why I make sure it’s important in my classroom. Helping parents is as important as teaching children.
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Being an Empath and a Highly Sensitive Person, I not only understand other people’s emotions, I actually feel them. I’ve found it very useful when interacting with my autistic grandson. The downside of being an Empath is being around negative people and, worse, psychic vampires. That can be very draining and painful.
Our society and our world could definitely use more empathy. More kindness and basic respect.🌻
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Thank you for sharing your insight✨
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Very well explained. Thank you for this knowledge-enriching piece.
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You’re welcome. Thank you for reading.
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Wonderful post Dr. Perry. Thank you for explaining the differences so well.
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My pleasure✨
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So insightful! I’ve always wondered why showing emotion is perceived as a weakness. If someone starts to cry about something or maybe get upset. I view emotion as being human and it’s always good to express how your feeling. Instead of ignoring it or keeping it inside your heart. I feel like sometimes it’s important to talk to someone who can understand how your feeling. Because it makes everything so complicated to articulate something to only feel worse than you did before, it’s hurtful.
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Wonderful post Dr Perry! Thanks for sharing
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You’re welcome. Glad you liked it.
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Thank you for another beautiful post. You are my favorite blog! Keep up the good work ❤️
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Thank you so much for the kind words. I will do my best✨
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This was a beautifully written post. Very profound. Would you mind if I shared it and linked to it on my blog as well?
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I don’t mind at all. Please feel free to share. Thank you for asking✨
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You are taking out time to spread this word along with your practice!! Kudos for helping people out 🙌🏻🙌🏻
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I am happy to share what I have learned so far on my journey. Thank you for your comment✨
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The Steinbeck quote is a terrific opener. As an empath it’s very interesting to read about people who are sort-of opposites in this way.
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Thank you for reading and for your comment✨
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Lovely post. I enjoyed your explanation of the differences between sympathy and empathy. Thank you 🙏🏽
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Thank you very much Kathy✨
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Thanks Dr. Perry for logically describing the empathy and sympathy which we really need to save the humanity. This world is going off the right track.
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Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts✨
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This was an amazing read. Thank you for sharing!
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My pleasure! Thank you for reading✨
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It was an informative read. Especially keeping the emotional aspects in the fore, your article presented the standings of the people coming under various above-mentioned categories in a new light. Thank you for sharing!
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You’re welcome. Thank you for reading✨
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So beautiful. And I agree, withouth empathy, this would be a dark place. Thanks for your great post. This is great content.
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My pleasure✨
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Great article. I can attest: observing a person struggle with weight loss all their life, then seeing them finally hit their stride… It’s a big reason everybody loves an “underdog” story. We struggle along with that person, and their victory becomes our own.
Empathy enables sharing the struggles and triumph.
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Thank you for reading and sharing your insight✨
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Thank you for your article. One thing that I’ve have noticed about some psychopaths and narcissists throughout my life is that they are indeed highly sensitive people, and like you said they use this to manipulate and exploit. Much of the time people might see, for example, a narcissistic mother as a compassionate soul due to her ability to sympathize; however, when a difficult situation comes along and empathy is required, it can become clear to those around her that she is not the person that they thought that she was. I’ve noticed, though, that narcissists and sociopaths can be experts at picking out their circle of friends and family in a way where they are not required to show empathy and thus can get away with being a certain type of “good person” in everyone’s eyes but a few. Anyways, these are just my observations on the subject. In terms of empathy itself in everyday living, I think that it is essential if one wants to lead a truly fulfilling life.
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Thank you for such an insightful post! I loved reading it and I hope you continue to write such great pieces of work that inspire and uplift!
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Thank you very much✨
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I like this and the reading was useful..strangely enough I would consider myself an empath and also “diagnosed” with BPD.. I’m just glad I have the capacity for deep feeling.. thanks for this article 🙂
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You’re welcome. Thank you for reading and commenting.
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Thank you for making clear the distinction between sympathy and empathy. I have always wondered about the differences. This was an excellent post. Thanks for sharing.
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You’re welcome✨
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We’re constantly working with empathy here at Google, so this was a good read. Would you mind if I shared it with our trainer?
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Please feel free to share✨
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Thank you!
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Dr. Perry,
Thank you for this post. I’ve enjoyed many of your articles. Moving from sympathy for another towards empathy seems to be a powerful way of expanding our love for others: Selfless love rather than selfish love which desires something from the person in exchange for loving them. Thank you for this poignant insight.
Ron
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Hello Ron, I am happy to hear my writing resonates with you. Thank you for commenting✨
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Thank you for taking the time to respond. I’m looking forward to reading more of your posts.
Sincerely,
Ron
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Great post: Empathy is not very well understood despite it’s ubiquity and therefore sadly underrated. I particularly like the distinction between Psychopaths and Narcissists. In the past, I may have incorrectly called out a few nasty people as Psychopaths, when in fact they were Narcissists. I shall now go off and correct that 😉😇 Thanks for sharing.
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Great post; I find that I empathize a lot, but it’s so intuitive that I still can’t understand their “shoes” well. I just somehow know they’re uncomfortable or what have you.
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great post Dr Perry.
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Thank you kindly✨
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I presume you might agree that highly sensitive people (HSP) are on the other end of an imbalanced scale for empathy vs the NPD.
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I like the way you write can you help me to explore i am beginner.
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So well explained, I was completely unaware of the difference between sympathy and empathy. I am adamant and completely protest sympathy. I think it is out of helplessness, that one individual expresses sympathy for other individual.
Empathy on the contrary is so worth and it for sure completes us a human.
Thank you for such a lovely post.
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Interesting how this post keeps getting responses months after it was written. I think others, like me, are coming back to it in the present COVID-19 pandemic, as we are seeing so much tragedy and witnessing so many responses. From fear to untold faith, from sympathy to empathy … from anger and angst to awesome answers of courage and compassion. We are trying to understand how to be helpful and not hurtful, how to empathize with families devastated (yesterday I heard a man speak who had lost 4 family members to the virus), while almost feeling guilty for being so far saved from this planet changer. Your words are more important now than ever, Dr. Perry, and I am happy to see them resonating with so many readers. I am grateful for your shared wisdom.
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Hi Dr. P! I think empathy is something that is especially important right now. People are struggling, and sometimes act out in surprising ways. Trying to understand what others are feeling, and dealing with can help us be more understanding.
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So well written, empathy is what makes us human! 👏
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Very interesting read! My ex has BPD and during his more stable times, he was a bit empathetic, but as he would spiral down, that would totally change. Being with him was a roller coaster and his lack of empathy at times was horrible to endure. My nephew was killed on a Navy ship a couple of years ago and my ex refused to help me through the funeral, etc. He said “I didn’t know him…why should I care?” I was dumbfounded, especially since he was a vet himself.
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Really enjoyed reading your article! I didn’t know that people with NPD had high emotional intelligence. That’s very interesting. Also, although people do often share the same values, I think some people are exceptions in that they still might react to birth & death differently.
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Power article, sir. As an emotionally receptive empath, I can totally relate with the lesson imparted here today. Keep up the good work!
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Very powerful post and very well-written! I can agree with this because I have the ability to feel others emotions and sometimes, it doesn’t feel good at all. But I wouldn’t trade it for anything. Thank you for posting!
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Nice one. I finally understood the slight difference between sympathy and empathy, thanks a lot for sharing.
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I love this.
If we are all able to have empathy in our dealings with others, conflicts in relationships will be reduced.
God bless you Dr. Eric
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I read through this and kept thinking of someone very close to me who exhibits what you described as lack of empathy.
Very informative post Dr Perry!
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An excellent post. Thanks for sharing.
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Beautiful post Dr. Perry ❤
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great synopsis. thank you
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Thank you
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Wow !! Nice post
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Dr. Thank you for sharing with us your expertise😊 your posts are so helpful
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Great piece
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You have very precisely differentiated empathy from sympathy. Thank you for giving your readers an in-depth professional counsel regarding the same. An excellent read!
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Wow this is so well-articulated !!!
Loved reading it.
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Very well explained what empathy is, I really like this post
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I won’t go into all the reasons I value this post but I will tell you that I delete many emails each morning but yours is one I always look forward to reading . With deep gratitude to you , your passion , your wisdom.
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You have a wonderful blog here with such helpful and interesting thoughts and ideas. Empathy is indeed the need of this era currently. No wonder even in the corporate sector, people are now focusing more on EQ rather than just IQ.
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WE all need to exercise empathy, more so than ever, in this current social arena.
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Also sadly many empathy people are often destroyed by NPD/psycopath /sociopath.
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Very informative post. Thank you for sharing.
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That’s a wonderful explanation of the difference between sympathy and empathy. When I say, “I certainly can sympathize with you. I’ve been there, done that,” I now realize that it is a much more shallow and self-centered response than the better one that you explain here. I will work on that ability to “wear the emotional skin of another and essentially feel with them.” A tall order… but a very important distinction! ❤
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Thank you for your comment and I am happy this resonated with you Jan🙏🏽🌟
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I think empathy, much like intuition is one of those things that everyone has but not everyone is tuned in enough to do anything with it. I’m a natural empath and sometimes it’s almost too much.
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I agree with wendyjmusings about empathy sometimes almost being too much. I consider myself a strong empath, and there have been times when I’ve so deeply felt another person’s pain that it’s become a part of my emotional being for some time. I think it’s possible to feel another’s pain so much that it envelopes my rationality and psyche, and it takes time to work that back out of my system.
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