Written by Dr. Eric Perry
“Not how long, but how well you have lived is the main thing.” ~Seneca
Perhaps like some of you, I have had a few sleepless nights pondering my mortality. I am in love with my life and wish to have as much of it as I possibly can. I believe Seneca had the right idea when he wrote this quote, but I do believe you can live long and well if you follow these 7 daily tips.
1. A body in motion stays in motion
Recently I read about Fauja Singh who in his 80’s started running long distances and at 101 years old ran the London marathon in under 8 hours. He turned 105 years old on April 1st, 2016 and continues to run for fun. Not all of us can run a marathon like Mr. Singh, but it is important to exercise daily for at least 30 minutes. Studies have shown that prolonged sedentary behavior, like sitting at your desk for 8 hours a day is associated with detrimental health outcomes, regardless of any other physical activity. To counter this, try standing at your desk while you work. Perhaps, go for a walk during your lunch break. Make it a habit to go for a walk with a family member or significant other in the evening. This is a great way to spend time together and still get in some physical activity. Make it a weekly goal to spend more time with family than with electronics. Turn off the TV, computer, and cell phone. Dedicate time to engage with your loved ones. Try going for a hike or passing a ball. There are so many health benefits from exercising. It can lower blood pressure, improve cholesterol levels, fight diabetes and reduce stress. Start moving!
2. Keep your mind young
As our body ages so does our brain. With the aging of the brain, mental functioning can deteriorate. By exercising our brain and keeping it active we can keep it fit and reduce the risk of age-related memory loss. Stagnant routines in elderly people have been shown to cause depression and feelings of loneliness. There are many “mental gymnastics” you can do to keep your brain fit. The key is to keep learning new things and keep yourself engaged. A perfect example of this is Ms. Doreetha Daniels who at the age of ninety-nine graduated from college with a degree in social sciences.
Here are a few suggestions on how to keep your mind active:
A) Read
Reading a good book can stimulate your brain to remember many details. These new memories will create pathways in your brain and strengthen existing ones. Reading keeps your mind fluid and strengthens short-term memory recall.
B) Take a class in something that interests you
Learn a new language! Studies have shown that learning a second language boosts memory. The more the brain is used the better it will function.
C) Play games
Games like chess, checkers, cards, board games and crossword puzzles are great for memory and logic. Games like these also increase mental clarity and concentration. An added bonus is that they are a great way to connect with family and friends.
3. Eat healthily
There are numerous studies that show that eating a nutritious and balanced diet helps improve and maintain health. It also helps defend against age-related illnesses. Maintaining a healthy weight by keeping a balance between calories in and calories out is essential. Current statistics suggest that about 34% of adults in American are obese and 17% of 2-19 year-olds are obese. Some of the risks associated with obesity and not eating well are heart disease, high blood pressure, diabetes and certain types of cancer. Make it a goal that half of your plate consists of fruits and vegetables, with an emphasis on vegetables. The other half should include whole grains and lean protein.
4. Laugh
In the words of Lord Byron, “Always laugh when you can. It is cheap medicine.” Don’t go a day without laughing. Numerous studies have shown the benefits of laughter. Studies have shown that laughter may raise the level of infection-fighting antibodies and boost the immune system as well as reduce stress hormones and release endorphins. Laughter can improve your overall sense of well-being and even relieve pain. So, embrace your inner child and find joy in the world around you. There are so many opportunities to laugh and share laughter with your loved ones. Make it a goal to start and end your day with a smile.
5. Stay connected
As we age, it is essential to embrace the changes and transitions that occur in order to maintain a sense of vitality and relevance. A support group of family and friends can help us stay balanced and enjoying life. A simple conversation with a friend or loved one can be invigorating. Strong social ties have been associated with lower blood pressure and a longer life expectancy. By maintaining and sustaining health you can continue learning and exploring the world around you well into old age. Getting older does not mean you are done living. Stay curious about life. Look for joy and meaning where you haven’t looked before. As Aldous Huxley said, “The secret of genius is to carry the spirit of the child into old age, which means never losing your enthusiasm.”
6. Don’t Smoke
Nothing good can be said about the effects of smoking. Studies have shown that smoking cigarettes contributes to heart disease, osteoporosis, emphysema, chronic lung problems and many types of cancer. According to the American Lung Association, 90% of male lung cancer patients develop their disease because of smoking. If you are a smoker, it’s not too late to quit. Here is the good news. Studies have shown that smokers who quit can repair some, if not all of the damage done to their bodies.
7. Have an annual physical
This is not a daily point, but nevertheless, it is important. Think of your body as the means of transportation to navigate through life. Just like you regularly get an oil change for your car, it is important to see your doctor at least once a year to follow preventive care and screening guidelines. By doing this you can stay on top of your health and catch any ailment before it becomes an issue.
Perhaps some of you will struggle with some of these suggestions. If so, it is important to remember not to give up. Remember, growth can’t happen in the comfort zone.
The thoughts expressed in this blog post are my own and are not meant to create a professional relationship with the reader. This blog does not replace or substitute the help of a medical professional. Please note, I am unable to answer your specific questions as I am not fully aware of all of the circumstances.
Kindly,
Dr. Perry
“I help ambitious and high achieving individuals manifest a life of success and fulfillment in order to achieve the life they truly desire.”
Dr. Eric Perry | drericperry.com
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Thank you for sharing !
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My pleasure!
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LOVE it. I do tons of them so you encouraged me. Thanks. I love Spider Solitaire, and my logo is an official.. HAPPY FACE !
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HI Marianne, I am happy to hear you found this encouraging!
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Love each point. Such practical, helpful advice!
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Very practical and necessary points
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I would LOVE to live forever healthily 😎😎
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Great post! Especially I like points about stays in motion and laugh! This can indeed extend our life!
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Great post…I try to do most of them. All great points.
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Great ! keep up the good work !
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All great advice.
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Great points. I currently do most of these and agree with all of them. Your health is the best form of wealth.
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I agree Dave! Thanks for the comment!
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Very informative post.🍹
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Thank you ! Have a wonderful Sunday 🌞
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Such great advice! And all doable.
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Thank you !
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Great post, as always! 😊
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All great tips!
Fauna Singh is a Sikh like me and an inspiration to us all. We’ve been honoured enough to be blessed with his presence where I live a few times and my Pops has met him too. Great man!
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Wow I would love to meet him. I was actually inspired to write the article because of him✨✨✨
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I wish more of our Indian elders would be more like him to be honest. Many work so hard and then hit retirement and just sit back. It’s like they have done their job and now have reached the age where they think they should be waited on. But not keeping going is so detrimental…
My own Pops is more active as a retired 70 year old than hex was at 50! He retired then learned Yoga and now teaches 5 classes a week!
I’m pretty sure our generations won’t be like that… but old skool thinking is hard to change!!!
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Your father sounds like an amazing man and proves it is never too late to learn something new! Have a wonderful day Ritu✨
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He is my inspiration, alongside my mum! Have a great day!
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more people should read this, I’m glad this all came to me 9 yrs ago that made me take a serious life change. Now I am living the Magic. If I stayed where I was and did not take the leap of faith, I would be in a world of mess now(smoking, drinking, being a sleepwalker in life). Quality of life is everything, we only have one life to live and we should respect ourselves enough to appreciate the life we have. Then all else WILL fall into place.
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Thank you for this beautiful and insightful comment. I wish you all the best on your journey!
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Thank you…I am now living life in my own design. So many of can live our lives this way but just don’t know how. I am reading ur post now and if people follow much of what you write, they too can get the confidence to Live Life of their own Design. I find your blog here informative and interesting. Thanks for being there for so many in this way.
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Wonderful post and lots of great reminders here on what’s important. Thanks Eric.
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Hi Miriam, I really enjoyed writing this particular blog post. It is a great reminder to myself to slow down! Have a wonderful day ✨
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Yes, writing really helps these ideas sink into our psych. Thanks again. You have a great day too!
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Indeed. Laughter I’d a good one. Including the ability to laugh at ourselves. Taking yourself too seriously is not good for yourself.
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Hmm, this reminds me, I keep postponing an invitation to jog with my man. I better make up my mind about it.
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my vote is go for the jog!
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Yeah, if I can only wake myself up in the early morning. Alarm clocks just don’t have any effect. The warmth of my blanket and the comfort of my bed weigh just too much over the thought of fitness and health. Waah!!!
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Ah, but…you can think out of the box or away from the alarm clock. My walking partner is not a morning person at all. We use to walk at 2PM but with the high heat we changed it to 7 or 8PM. Thankfully, we didn’t find a convenient excuse to give up but instead found a work around. I bet you can too! 🙂
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Excellent post!
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thank you!
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wow! Your blog is nice! I just started and after looking at your page I see I have a long way to go! lol keep up the good work p.s. I love tip #4
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Thank you and you are off to a great start I love the name of your blog✨✨✨
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Love the point about reading. I’ve never seen that mentioned before for this subject. Thank you for the post!
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True and thanks so much for your superb words of encouragement and inspiration they r really worth it
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Thank you so much I appreciate your positive feed back! Have a great weekend✨
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Welcome and they were so inspiring
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Great advice ❤
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Thank you!✨✨✨
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As a 50-year old granny currently training for a half marathon and learning Spanish from scratch, I can certainly vouch for the benefits of staying physically and mentally active and challenged. Life is a precious gift and there is so much living to be done! Thank you for such an inspiring post. Lis 🙂
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Thank you for sharing such an inspirational comment! ✨
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Love Laughter is cheap medicine . . . .just saying, Claudia
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I love the last line of this post. I’m learning this the hard way!
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Lunch time walks improve my work days.
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Thanks for the tips. Great reminders. Recently started going on daily walks (about a week or so back). It’s stress relieving and fun. 🙂
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I agree!
Love this sentence best: Stay curious about life. Look for joy and meaning where you haven’t looked before.
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Great article Dr. Perry. Thank you for helpful insights. with your permission, It’s my pleasure to reblog this article on my blog Leadership traits as I strongly feel these are essential for a leader to sustain and succeed.
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Great post by Dr.Perry. Read more to get helpful insights. Re-blogging as I strongly feel these habits are essential for a leader to sustain and succeed. Thank you!
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Wonderful! Thanks for the reminders. 👍
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This is good for all to read.
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Eliminate worry too. Man I have changed so much these past few years. I feel twenty years younger without stress. Thanks Doc!
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Very good Post.👍
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Great post! Very inspirational and well written. Thank you Dr. Perry.
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Hi Carmen, it is one of my earlier posts and one that I really enjoyed writing. I am happy you liked it.✨
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Thank you very much Dr.Perry for these important tips.
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You are most welcome✨
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having loving connections is so important.
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Indeed! It is one of the most important elements for a happy and healthy life✨
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Love this article Dr Perry. Good information for a man on the wrong side of 40. Thanks !!
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I agree with all the points, great article.
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Thank you! Glad you liked it✨
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Thanks for posting this!
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All sound information, Dr. Perry. Admittedly, it’s been more challenging to accomplish some of these things during COVID-19 which seems to be having a significant negative impact on one’s life and mood. But, that also means these things are even more important right now. Best wishes for continued good health!
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7 beautiful tips for good life.
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Oh you are so right! I use to say I was ‘Running for my Life’ and after slowing down, not running as much, guess what… high blood pressure, weight gain and more.
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Great advice.
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All very easy but effective tips
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Thank you Dr. Perry for this essential advice! I like the comment you made “Getting older doesn’t mean you’re done living”. That comment is so profound because many of us, including myself, believe that when you get old, you should remain stagnant. And when I help and visit my grandfather at his residence, it saddens me when I observe some of the elderly stare outside the window. The looks on their eyes display that they have lost hope…they have lost the will to live. Although I am young, reading this has transformed my mind to now believe that when I get old, the fun the adventure, my goals, and my dreams don’t have to stop!
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